"I was crying over someone else's child when I was out here over the years. That's what bothers me the most is I wasn't in the right spot," Abeyta said.
http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/09/23/father-visits-wrong-grave-seven-years/16088925/
1. Who knew there was a "right" spot?
2. What bothers me the most is the wasted time of what little one has on the planet...I do understand grief, but, life goes on yeah.